Life Coaching
Ninety percent of failures are simply the result of starting from the wrong place
Experience shows that most people in the world are not truly successful.
The dreams they have this year… are the same ones they carry into the
Next year, and the years after that.
In other words, they haven’t reached their goals. I often ask myself: Why?
You might say it’s because of laziness, or lack of goals and planning.
But I’ve seen people who do have goals and plans—yet they still don’t succeed.
Today, I’ve come to this conclusion:
90% of failures happen simply because we start from the wrong place
Start right where you are!
Stephen Covey, in his book “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” refers to a concept called the Circle of Concern, with a smaller circle inside it called the Circle of Influence.
He points out that most people focus their attention on things they want to have, while in reality, they should start from where they are.
Investing in Myself! The hidden key and fundamental secret to success
If I want something beyond where I currently am, I must invest in myself — and that is the hidden truth and essential key to success.
Anyone who becomes successful either inherited helpful habits or beliefs from their family, environment, or education — or they’ve managed to change themselves by overcoming fears, doubts, anger, resentment, laziness, and instant gratification. They chose to think long-term.
You may have seen someone change overnight — why? Because their beliefs shifted, and they realized: “With these habits and this mindset, I won’t get anywhere.”
As the old saying goes, “You can’t ride a weak horse to a long journey like Kandahar.”
If you truly want to get somewhere meaningful, you must equip yourself for greatness.
It’s your mindset and thinking that must evolve.
Through life coaching, you can transform. You can achieve anything — as long as you have the right tools and mindset.
Say to yourself: “I choose growth, progress, and success!”
If we’re unable to re-evaluate our values and adapt ourselves to current times, conditions, and desires, we may end up sitting quietly in a corner, living our own life, doing our work — but not growing much.
That’s okay too — it’s a choice.
But with that mindset, we can’t ask:
“Why don’t I get a share of all this success?”
If we want to grow, we must be willing to change.
That’s why I created and developed Life Coaching — and I can say with full confidence that it’s truly exceptional.
Because it’s built on both real-world experience and scientific principles
“Change” is not a synonym for death! Change is a choice!
If I become renewed, it’s because I chose to become renewed.
I chose to allow these thoughts and beliefs into my mind.
And I cannot complain to God, asking, “Why is my fate so dark?”
You’ve chosen to see the world the way you do.
Life coaching is, in fact, the alphabet of becoming a successful human being.
It doesn’t matter where you are, what resources or limitations you have —
these are insignificant compared to what you’re truly capable of achieving.
If you’re willing — willing to pay the price, to tell yourself:
“I must build these habits within me.”
Once these habits take root, they become your beliefs.
And when you succeed, you’ll begin to believe in your success,
you’ll begin to see it, and say to yourself:
“I wanted it — and I made it happen.”
No one is more important in your life than you!
The limitations and hardships we face are a reflection of our own thinking. This thinking, which encompasses our beliefs and habits, pushes us to take actions that lead to dead ends, and then we blame it on God, or other people. We say things like, “It’s my father’s fault,” “It’s my mother’s fault,” “It’s the boss’s fault,” “It’s the employee’s fault,” and so on. No matter what we say, it’s these very thoughts, beliefs, and habits that have brought us to this point.
I suggest you make a firm decision, just once, to change! Meaningful changes! No one is more important in your life than you are; you are the most important person. We need to start with ourselves.
No one can belittle or humiliate you or me unless we allow it. This is rooted in our old beliefs and habits, and we have the power to change them. Today is when you and I start.
